Sex IS worth talking about…
Samantha Fox Samantha Fox

Sex IS worth talking about…

How often do you and your partner talk sex? Yes, I mean talk about YOUR sex.

Wait.

Before you answer that question, let’s define “sex”. When I ask clients what their definition is of “having sex”, the most common response is “intercourse and an orgasm”. Right, so this means, in order to “have sex”, you must have a penis that stays erect and two people capable of climax? No wonder so many of us out there feel pressure around performance when it comes to sex.

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Are you ready to stop living by “shoulds”?
Samantha Fox Samantha Fox

Are you ready to stop living by “shoulds”?

Do any of these statements sound like something you would say or think?

I “should” be more accomplished by this point in my life.
I “shouldn’t” be resting and reading this weekend,
I “should” be out and social.
He “should” know how I feel.
She “should” know how I feel.
We “should” be spending all of our free time together because that’s what couples do.

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A ‘two-sided’ affair?
Samantha Fox Samantha Fox

A ‘two-sided’ affair?

The discovery of an affair is one of the most painful and damaging experiences for a monogamous couple. When the affair is revealed, the betrayed partner is left to sit with a slew of debilitating and upsetting feelings. They want to know why the affair happened, and demand information from their partner in elaborate detail. They may blame their partner for ruining the trust that existed between them, and feel unable to see anything other than their partner’s inconsiderate and self-serving actions as a means to a selfish end.

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