How often do you and your partner talk sex? Yes, I mean talk about YOUR sex.

Wait.

Before you answer that question, let’s define “sex”. When I ask clients what their definition is of “having sex”, the most common response is “intercourse and an orgasm”. Right, so this means, in order to “have sex”, you must have a penis that stays erect and two people capable of climax? No wonder so many of us out there feel pressure around performance when it comes to sex.